Ask Carley: It's OK to read your vows at ceremony

Q: My fiance and I are writing our own vows. Can we read them off paper at our ceremony?

A: Of course you can! You'll already be so nervous about speaking in front of friends and family that no one expects you to memorize your lines as though you were in a play.

Lots of couples read their vows to each other off paper, and it's not one bit less sweet. If you still feel weird about it, ask your officiant to read aloud the vows you've written, and you and your fiance can repeat.

(Carley Roney, co-founder and editor in chief of The Knot, the nation's leading wedding resource, advises millions of brides on modern wedding etiquette at www.theknot.com.)

(Distributed by Scripps Howard News Service, http://www.scrippsnews.com)

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