ShareThisQ: I definitely don't want my fiance to see me in the dress on the day-of, but what about before that?
A: It's really your choice. There's no etiquette rule in the books for this, so go with your gut. If you're superstitious, keep him clear. But if you want his opinion on the dress, let him in on the decision-making process
Show him photos of dresses you're thinking of trying on. Having his feedback before you shop will help a lot. Or bring him along to the bridal salon to get his thoughts.
We know of a few grooms who have accompanied their fiancees to weigh in on the dress.
(Carley Roney, co-founder and editor-in-chief of The Knot, the nation's leading wedding resource, advises millions of brides on modern wedding etiquette at www.theknot.com. Got more questions? Visit www.theknot.com/askcarley for 800-plus answers on all things wedding.)
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