By CARLEY RONEY, Scripps Howard News Service
Doesn't want strippers at her bachelorette party
Q: I've tried to tell my bridesmaids that I don't want strippers at my bachelorette party, but they're insisting. Do I grin and bear it, or put my foot down?
A. It doesn't matter what your friends want; it matters what you want. It's nice that they're planning a party for you, but you should be comfortable.
Fair to ask friends to pay for pricy bridesmaid dresses?
Q: The bridesmaid dresses are really expensive, but I love them! Is it too much to ask my friends to pay for them?
What to do about a 'total downer' maid of honor
Q: My maid of honor is a total downer and keeps criticizing every decision I make. Can I ask her to step down?
A: She's obviously a close friend, so unless she did something completely unforgivable, asking her to step down is a last resort.
Saying no to your future mother-in-law's veil
Q: My future mother-in-law offered to give me her veil. How do I let her know I don't want to wear it without hurting her feelings?
Flower options for allergic people
Q: I'm allergic to most flowers. Are there any that are allergen-free or less likely to upset my sinuses?
A: Surprisingly, yes -- there are hypoallergenic blooms. Lucky you! Allergies to flowers are typically caused by pollen, so you're going to need a pollen-free or low-pollen-count choice.
Should maid of honor be asked to cover up her tattoo?
Q: My maid of honor has a tattoo on her back, which is clearly visible in the bridesmaid dress. We're getting married in a very conservative church. Can I ask her to cover it up for the wedding?
Fun china trends
Q: We're registering for china, but want something fun. What are some of the best trends and ideas for practicality and individuality?
Don't wait too long with those thank-you notes
Q: My mom says I have to send my thank-you notes within three weeks of the wedding. But with a two-week honeymoon and work staring me in the face right after, this seems almost impossible. Is it OK if it takes me a little longer?

